college is catered towards the able bodied and able minded. school applauds people who can stay up all night, skip meals, and work endlessly. that kind of extreme contribution is expected. why are disabled people being squeezed out of academic institutions? why should I feel inferior because of some arbitrary and ridiculous standard?
Reblogging for my folks enmeshed in finals. Education shouldn’t be contingent on or require you to sacrifice your physical and emotional well-being.
Seed Plant Breeder
Fly a Line
Paint a Nebula
The Quiet Place
The Thoughts Room
Paint Like Jackson Pollock
Do Nothing for Two Minutes
Create Your Own Picasso Face
weave silk is my favorite and seed plant breeder is super fun.
for everyone rn
Hello, everyone - old followers and new!
Pretty much this blog has been on hiatus for a while. I don’t know if I will be actively posting my own material in the future or not, but you will be the be the first ones to know if I do.
As it stands, I will pass on stuff I find on my dash when I feel it’s relevant for this blog.
In the meantime, the list below is of ADHD related blog that update regularly!
That’s it! I’m sending all my love your way :)
#there is absolutely no fucking way this isn’t haunting him #every goddamn day #one of the last things he got to say to sherlock holmes when he was more than a name on a headstone #and he replays it over and over again and drives himself crazy #probably catches himself imaging a dozen and one different things he could have said #standing at the kitchen counter with his tea oversteeping and a second mug sitting nearby that he didn’t even know he’d grabbed #ugh get away
Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably Reasons, though those may just be how you are wired. Acknowledge these things. When you finish something hard, be proud! Celebrate a little.
And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in any context. You feel how you feel. The things in your head are the things in your head. You can’t change either directly through sheer force of will. You can only change what you do. Stop beating yourself up for who and what you are right now–it isn’t productive. Focus on moving forward. — How to keep moving forward, even when your brain hates you. (via socialrants)
It turns out procrastination is not typically a function of laziness, apathy or work ethic as it is often regarded to be. It’s a neurotic self-defense behavior that develops to protect a person’s sense of self-worth.
You see, procrastinators tend to be people who have, for whatever reason, developed to perceive an unusually strong association between their performance and their value as a person. This makes failure or criticism disproportionately painful, which leads naturally to hesitancy when it comes to the prospect of doing anything that reflects their ability — which is pretty much everything.
But in real life, you can’t avoid doing things. We have to earn a living, do our taxes, have difficult conversations sometimes. Human life requires confronting uncertainty and risk, so pressure mounts. Procrastination gives a person a temporary hit of relief from this pressure of “having to do” things, which is a self-rewarding behavior. So it continues and becomes the normal way to respond to these pressures.
Particularly prone to serious procrastination problems are children who grew up with unusually high expectations placed on them. Their older siblings may have been high achievers, leaving big shoes to fill, or their parents may have had neurotic and inhuman expectations of their own, or else they exhibited exceptional talents early on, and thereafter “average” performances were met with concern and suspicion from parents and teachers. —
David Cain, “Procrastination Is Not Laziness” (via sociolab)
(Source: pawneepranksdepartment, via volatilehearts)
literally this goes to all the anons whoever tell me can’t or have no reason to be sad.
wow i never thought of it like this before
so so true.
and hearing that just makes you feel so much worse.
you’re doing great.
(Source: internal-acceptance-movement, via clinicallydepressedpug)
(Source: clinicallydepressedpug, via nudityandnerdery)
(Source: vi0lin, via volatilehearts)